Wonder if she wanted to be saved.SJConspirator » 15 Nov 2022, 9:07 am » wrote: ↑ . . . and bitter that nobody came faster to save his wife
It's nice to know I have such good friends around here !IkeBana » 15 Nov 2022, 10:38 am » wrote: ↑ It would be easier to feel bad for you, if you weren't such an oozing rectal orifice.
As I told two other posters on this thread stop it on this thread. Show some respect. There is a time and place. This ain’t it:IkeBana » 15 Nov 2022, 10:38 am » wrote: ↑ It would be easier to feel bad for you, if you weren't such an oozing rectal orifice.
Mrkelly » 15 Nov 2022, 1:22 pm » wrote: ↑ Don’t know you but here goes
I’ve seen some good advice on here, get drunk, gather friends and family and talk about the good memories
And maybe think about what you told her about the prospects of you going first, how did you want her to respond…. And go from there
I know from experience, it helps
Good luck to you and yours
Sorry for your loss
Kelly

Olivaw » 15 Nov 2022, 6:32 pm » wrote: ↑ We have crossed swords a few times but that is irrelevant. Your post touched me more than you can possibly imagine.
My sincerest apologies and condolences on your loss. I shall say a prayer for you.
So sorry for your loss Jinn.JinnMartini » 14 Nov 2022, 11:06 pm » wrote: ↑ My wife of 35 years suddenly passed away, a few days back.
She reached 60+ years old.
We all thought I'd be the first to leave.
Which she dreaded . . . to be left alone back here !
But destiny wanted it otherwise.
After the police took away her remains I fell to the floor and couldn't get back on my own.
And a neighbor who came up to my shoutings for help called the police.
I still have still no idea what the police smashed to get to me !
The next thing I knew was . . . I was in some ICU and I peed all over me !
They did all the **** they wanted to do . . . blood, IMR etc. etc. . . . in the morning they came and told me I could go home !
I still have pain everywhere, though!
On the way out I was asked at least ten times, at every corner, if I had enough money to pay the taxy !
Which I didn't . . . but a loving neighbor was ready to pay the fare.
And so now I'm am here all alone . . . trying to cope with all the **** that comes with all that.
Thanks guys for your support . . . or lack of it.
I couldn't care less !