lol...About a month ago, while we were discussing wedding costs, I brought up a prenup. Not in a cold or controlling way I just wanted to protect the life I’ve worked hard to build. I was upfront that I’d still be fair and the agreement wouldn’t leave her with nothing. I expected an adult conversation.
Instead she immediately got defensive. She said things like So you’re already planning for a divorce? and I thought we trusted each other. I tried to explain it wasn’t about trust it was about transparency and mutual protection. But she shut it down completely. That’s when red flags started popping up. She became evasive every time money came up and I started noticing weird things credit card offers in the mail, a few missed payments on shared expenses she said she'd cover, and lots of I'll handle it later energy.
So, I asked directly if she had debt. She admitted it. $92,000 in credit card debt. Not student loans. Not a mortgage. Credit cards. She said it accumulated over the years from unexpected expenses and a few dumb splurges but she never told me about any of it until I forced the issue. I was stunned. We’re about to merge lives. This woman was about to legally become my spouse and she didn’t think I deserved to know she was six figures in the red?
I told her this made the prenup non-negotiable for me. I need to protect myself not just emotionally, but financially. I told her I was willing to still move forward but not without something in writing that protects my premarital assets. She lost it. Called me selfish. Said I was turning love into a business deal.
LowIQTrash » 03 May 2025, 8:48 pm » wrote: ↑ Charlie 6, we have an unexpected kink...
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments ... ng_off_my/
lol...
I like your bait and switch title, the op is definitely an intellectual misdirection in the attempt to use reverse psychology on everyone alive. 1935 AD isn't 600 BC either. All the years and humanity governing people defined by context ignoring how genetics works eternally separating every generation gap lived daily here in plain sight everywhere in this atmosphere ancestors cannot see the universe beyond the sun until the rotation of the planet puts one's geographical area on the dark side of the planet dusk to dawn.LowIQTrash » 03 May 2025, 8:48 pm » wrote: ↑ Charlie 6, we have an unexpected kink...
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments ... ng_off_my/
lol...
Farming upvotes?
Said HE was turning love into a bidniss. Now that is rich, right there.LowIQTrash » 03 May 2025, 8:48 pm » wrote: ↑ Charlie 6, we have an unexpected kink...
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments ... ng_off_my/
lol...
There are a lot of those going around.
The soon-to-be-wed-bride having 92K in credit card debt is the least credible factoid.Cannonpointer » 04 May 2025, 12:54 am » wrote: ↑ There are a lot of those going around.
I know a chinese guy who gets six figures a MONTH to make up stories and plant them on the internet.
Okay, I don't really. But it's probably a thing. People love to make **** up. I knew a Korean guy who made **** up all day every day.
One of my favorite quotations about life, ON PAR with the classics in your signature:Cannonpointer » 04 May 2025, 12:52 am » wrote: ↑ Said HE was turning love into a bidniss. Now that is rich, right there.
No doubt. Your social mind cannot deal with what you natural brain navigates every heartbeat in plain sight of your specific proportion adapting as displaced since a fertilized cell of combined chromosomes.
Cannonpointer » 04 May 2025, 12:54 am » wrote: ↑ There are a lot of those going around.
I know a chinese guy who gets six figures a MONTH to make up stories and plant them on the internet.
Okay, I don't really. But it's probably a thing. People love to make **** up. I knew a Korean guy who made **** up all day every day.
Cannonpointer » 04 May 2025, 12:54 am » wrote: ↑ There are a lot of those going around.
I know a chinese guy who gets six figures a MONTH to make up stories and plant them on the internet.
Okay, I don't really. But it's probably a thing. People love to make **** up. I knew a Korean guy who made **** up all day every day.
Same guy Korean dude I knew. He made **** up like a Chinese guy tht made **** up and posted it to the net every day.I knew a Korean guy who made **** up all day every day.
Chinese Japanese, what's the difference?*Huey » 04 May 2025, 10:54 am » wrote: ↑
Same guy Korean dude I knew. He made **** up like a Chinese guy tht made **** up and posted it to the net every day.
Which ship of fools are your we taking? If you were superman thread?murdock » 04 May 2025, 11:33 am » wrote: ↑ My ship is preparing to go behind the dark side of your satellite. We may park there a while to observe plasma ejections from your star. Now is the time for questions...
31stArrival » 04 May 2025, 3:01 pm » wrote: ↑ Which ship of fools are your we taking? If you were superman thread?
Anyone who suggests “recycling” human excrement for agriculture needs to be summarily executedDeezerShoove » 04 May 2025, 10:43 am » wrote: ↑ I am unaware that that was a thing.
My method of farming anything includes the use of **** (bull or otherwise).
Oh calm down boy! There is still plenty of **** for you to eat!LowIQTrash » 04 May 2025, 3:48 pm » wrote: ↑ Anyone who suggests “recycling” human excrement for agriculture needs to be summarily executed
Okay ya got me.