15 Nov 2022 8:07 am
JinnMartini » 14 Nov 2022, 11:06 pm » wrote: ↑ My wife of 35 years suddenly passed away, a few days back.
She reached 60+ years old.
We all thought I'd be the first to leave.
Which she dreaded . . . to be left alone back here !
But destiny wanted it otherwise.
After the police took away her remains I fell to the floor and couldn't get back on my own.
And a neighbor who came up to my shoutings for help called the police.
I still have still no idea what the police smashed to get to me !
The next thing I knew was . . . I was in some ICU and I peed all over me !
They did all the **** they wanted to do . . . blood, IMR etc. etc. . . . in the morning they came and told me I could go home !
I still have pain everywhere, though!
On the way out I was asked at least ten times, at every corner, if I had enough money to pay the taxy !
Which I didn't . . . but a loving neighbor was ready to pay the fare.
And so now I'm am here all alone . . . trying to cope with all the **** that comes with all that.
Thanks guys for your support . . . or lack of it.
I couldn't care less !
that's rough man. Last year I met a man who went thru almost the same thing. His wife got out of bed early one morning and collapsed. The man called 911 and it took them 30 minutes to arrive, she passed on.
He is now living alone, dealing with his own elderly infirmities, hoping his kids call more often, and bitter that nobody came faster to save his wife