It IS more than looks. I have held it together pretty well. But I’ve never dated a guy based on his looks. I do want to marry some day. Most men my age are very damaged.Skans » 11 Jul 2023, 12:29 pm » wrote: ↑ It's more than just looks. Attraction is strongest women during their teens and for men during their late teens. Even for a man, the ability to form a life-long bond with a woman diminishes as he approaches 30.
If we as a society ever want to get back to the male-female life-long family unit as the core to our way of life, and away from perversion, then we need to be encouraging life-long relationships to begin during teens that culminate in marriage prior to 21. Some societies, like the Amish, have had this figured out for hundreds of years.