The trans movement lost all credibility with me when they challenged someone to a debate, and the person agreeing to debate with them on trans issues spoke of "getting to the Truth of the matter" and one of the trans activists balked, saying: "Truth is transphobic."
For the most part, I'm a "live and let live" kind of guy; so long as the way you live your life doesn't adversely affect my ability to live my life as I so choose, then I really don't care. Want to wear a dress? Fine, whatever. But the bathroom issue gets me. Women and girls are at their most vulnerable when in the restroom, and you want to let a biological male, who claims he's actually a woman and we have to accept that because "transphobia" or whatever, to walk in there? We already have instances of sexual predators arbitrarily proclaiming themselves "female" so they can go into women's restrooms and molest and rape the women and girls they find there... and we're supposed to be OKAY with that??