18 Feb 2024 8:43 am
Please, don't use the word "incel" that way, it's extremely harmful. Incel means involuntary celibate, it's when a person is born so ugly looking or disabled that no one wants to date him or her over something he or she has no control over and that person is lonely and miserable for life, that person is basically told by society, "you're not good enough to be loved, you're not good enough to have a spouse and/or a family because of something you didn't choose or asked for, because of something you can't control". Using "incel" as a synonymous for "Conservative", "loser", "asshole" or "moron" is extremely harmful. Conservatives are not actual involuntary celibates, they're responsible and in control of their actions, all they have to do is just stop being **** people and then people will want to date them. A person is a real true actual involuntary celibate cannot change his or her situation, they cannot stop being ugly looking or make their disabilities disappear.
I'm one of many neurologically disabled/impaired people who have been single all their lives (I have been for decades) because no one wants to date a disabled person who is UNABLE to work, is on government assistance since they turned 18 with severe employment constraints, will die on government assistance, has episodes of sensory hypersensitivity/sensory overload, sometimes has a hard time taking care of themselves, and can't really go places because of their disabilities and their economic situation. I'm also one of the people who was born ugly looking or at the very least pretty average/to ordinary to even be noticed by people who are looking for sexy and attractive people to date. Please, stop, using "incel" has a derogatory term, an insult, a slur, or incorrectly. Conservatives, most of them anyway, can change their situation if they would just change their attitude, actual incels cannot change their situation because they didn't choose to be born ugly and/or disabled and have absolutely no control over that. To call those radical-Right crackpots "incels" is an insult to actual incels. I wish people would stop using that word incorrectly and would stop lumping actual poor incels who have no control over their situation in the same category with those radical-Right crackpots who can change their situation at any time by changing their attitude.