People change. People make choices. Mental illness occurs. Happily divorced after my autistic step daughter got molested at the boys and girls club. Gave her support and counseling and loads of attention. A few months later she was molested by another student in the school bathroom. Same modus operandi. Cornered and the perpetrator ate her out. We got her more counciling and attention. A few months later she accused her gay uncle of the same. Not sure how good autistic ****** tastes but I was having trouble believing her on this occasion. Told the wife to get her serious help or I would not be alone with her. She moved out because I doubted the veracity of her daughters claims. We divorced a short time later. Ex step daughter was molested another three times in the intervening years. I know I dodged a bullet.Skans » 28 Sep 2023, 1:45 pm » wrote: ↑ I've never understood how a man and women who choose to get married, then years later wind up getting divorced. If two people date for a year (or more) and then get married, can't y'all figure out that working on making the marriage better is a better thing to do with your life than simply quitting and getting a divorce?