everyone is cheating against their own time alive. ha ha ha ha ha ha ha who you become after birth isn't staying all you were one at a time since conception.
Everyone involved with my conception ended in my mom's death in 2006, dad died in 1999, grandparents died in the 70's and 80's.
After birth you traded specific position alive in a specific ancestral lineage for a social identity competing to inherit the earth tomorrow. There never will be a physical tomorrow unless you count each generation gap a continuation of ancestral lineages adding generation gaps forward one great great grandchild at a time this species never same ancestors added again.