I wasn't around the first time, second time we had just been married. I was a little miffed about not "doing everything possible", I've learned to trust her judgement.sootedupCyndi » 20 Aug 2023, 11:24 am » wrote: ↑ well i googled our huge cancer center. You know what came up? nothing but Obits. I'm glad for you she is doing so well!