I can't say what I would do, as I don't have a queer trans kid. But I DAMN sure wouldn't pretend to be so ignorant and disconnected that I couldn't understand "what the big deal is." The big deal is some OTHER guy's daughter not wanting YOUR freak in HER shower, Bobby - that is the big **** deal.
Let's not stop until Bobby understands what the big deal is, shall we? Because the "disown/don't disown" argument that YOU - not the OP - are introducing is not the real issue here. The real issue is exactly what Bobby SAID the real issue is: "
What's the big deal."
That's the issue. "What's the big deal." So let's talk about THAT issue - not the "disown/don't disown" issue that is ultimately a personal choice. Let's talk about why it's a big **** deal - and why Bobby de Niro is dishonest and wrong to pretend he is clueless.
When you complain, your friends roll their eyes and your enemies smile
"Because I SAY I am" is fallacy, not science
You cannot betray me - only yourself, to me.
Who cuts off your dick is not your friend
An opinion you won't defend is not yours. It's someone else's
Humanity's Law of the Jungle: Survival NOT of the fittest, but of the tribe
When peeing in the pool, stand on the edge
If gender is not sex, why should a gender claim change what sex you shower with?