So?
A friend mine a had death in the family two days ago. His brother.
I asked him this morning "How do you feel?"
He said "Relieved."
I'd most likely feel the same way. Now, if my brother was murdered... not relieved.
There is a whole gamut of ways people act after a death. Many are complete put-ons.
Those people sicken me...
I'd rather laugh at a funeral than weep...
Please seat yourself.
I like the very things you hate.