in my time evolving I learned from other people's mistakes as well as my own. I had a cousin that would hang out with people that behaved same as he did, at 14 get drunk on weekends because one of his friend's dad would get them beer if everyone bought him a 12 pack of his own. Then they went to pot and beer, and I didn't join in with them and eventually they got paranoid and invited me to leave. So I did. So much for family ties.
I have always had a sense of proportion and that I guess is why I never became a completely dedicated social mentality to any one specific ideology. Right and wrong in series parallel of good and evil, with us or against us, if not part of the solution, one is part of the problem reality has never staying in sequence with mutually evolving here.
Reality has so many missing links, biological results don't.