Will your daughter ever understand her own brain obeying what you believe possible since your own date of birth the generation prior to your daughter's conception by you and a mate? Or is your daughter a step child created by two other soles? Rhetorical question I don't need an answer for. You are a self deceptionist demanding everyone else practice that behavior too.
State of mind is context over chromosomes choosing how to behave each heartbeat added forward now since born into one's specific DNA streaming of current events as specifically displaced by longitude, latitude, ancestral platitude, individual attitude, hemisphere positioned in this atmosphere now.
Actually alive is navigating proportionately part of the whole population living one at a time in this atmosphere being an equal part of over 8.2 billion soles reproduced so far.