love to be wanted is same emotion as hate to be rejected. Apathy is accepting what life offers each reproduction living forward now is what sustains civility between generation gaps of ancestral lineages alive now.
Pretending socially character matters will destroy ancestral lineages by governing people psychologically with sibling rivalry cradle to grave competing to be the only idea everyone believes possible and today's current common ideology within this species is pretending genetic outcomes aren't alive as eternally separate by their own brain and heartbeat now.