Divorce, I Just Don't Get It....

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By Skans
28 Sep 2023 1:45 pm in No Holds Barred Political Forum
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Skans » 28 Sep 2023, 2:03 pm » wrote: I agree wholeheartedly with this.

When it comes right down to it, you chose your spouse.  The person who will be at your side to deal with whatever life throws at the both of you.  Your parents will eventually get sick and die.  Your kids will eventually leave you.  Your friends enjoy your company as long as you are fun to be around, but they never really love you.

So, if you are lucky enough to find someone you love enough, and who loves you enough to marry, then you've been blessed with the greatest gift God has to offer you in this life.  Why would someone ever throw that away?
Mine ran off with a ***.

















My own damned fault for marrying a ***.
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Mrkelly » 28 Sep 2023, 6:55 pm » wrote: facts are funny things 

Both sides of the aisle may be surprised to learn statistics behind the family-values oriented Republican party. According to a 2014 report in the American Journal of Sociology, "red" states (states that tend to vote Republican), have higher divorce rates than "blue" states (states that tend to vote Democratic).
You start badmouthing upright republicans like Newt Gingrich, and you're walkin' on the fightin' side of me.  Image  
Mrkelly » 28 Sep 2023, 6:55 pm » wrote: The article attributes this difference to earlier marriage and family formation, lower education levels, and lower incomes that are often seen in red states.
Newt had PLENTY of money, and he had plenty of love for his wives!
 
 
When you complain, ur friends roll their eyes and ur enemies rejoice

"Because I SAY I am" is a todler's tantrum, not "science"

You cannot betray me - only yourself, to me.

Who cuts off your dick is not a friend

An opinion you won't defend is not your own

Humanity's Law of the Jungle: Survival NOT of the fittest, but of the tribe

When peeing in the pool, stand on the edge

If gender is not sex, why should a gender claim change what sex you shower with?
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GHETTOBLASTER » 28 Sep 2023, 8:41 pm » wrote: There are  so called Red States that have very Blue Cities within.
It is the very Blue Cities [usually full of ***] within the Red States that are guilty of  enough society debasing issues to make it appear that the entire state is full of murderers, rapists, drug addicts, wife beaters, welfare recipients, lower education levels, etc.
Are you sure that same situation isn't going on with the source you  just deposited here...?
You can't blame the divorce rate on ***. They don't get married - not even to make babies.  :LOL:  
 
When you complain, ur friends roll their eyes and ur enemies rejoice

"Because I SAY I am" is a todler's tantrum, not "science"

You cannot betray me - only yourself, to me.

Who cuts off your dick is not a friend

An opinion you won't defend is not your own

Humanity's Law of the Jungle: Survival NOT of the fittest, but of the tribe

When peeing in the pool, stand on the edge

If gender is not sex, why should a gender claim change what sex you shower with?
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Neo » 28 Sep 2023, 9:13 pm » wrote: People change. People make choices. Mental illness occurs. Happily divorced after my autistic step daughter got molested at the boys and girls club. Gave her support and counseling and loads of attention. A few months later she was molested by another student in the school bathroom. Same modus operandi. Cornered and the perpetrator ate her out. We got her more counciling and attention. A few months later she accused her gay uncle of the same. Not sure how good autistic ****** tastes but I was having trouble believing her on this occasion. Told the wife to get her serious help or I would not be alone with her. She moved out because I doubted the veracity of her daughters claims. We divorced a short time later. Ex step daughter was molested another three times in the intervening years. I know I dodged a bullet.
Damn. That was a good tale.

I'd have to agree - you damn sure dodged a bullet. Because once they level those charges, everyone looks at you sideways. The accusation is a mini-conviction. 

At the same time, I can't fault the mother.

Stand by yore clam,
and tell the world it loves her;
and always be proud of her, 
Even when she gets ate on the ca-a-a-an...
Stand by yore claaaaaam...
When you complain, ur friends roll their eyes and ur enemies rejoice

"Because I SAY I am" is a todler's tantrum, not "science"

You cannot betray me - only yourself, to me.

Who cuts off your dick is not a friend

An opinion you won't defend is not your own

Humanity's Law of the Jungle: Survival NOT of the fittest, but of the tribe

When peeing in the pool, stand on the edge

If gender is not sex, why should a gender claim change what sex you shower with?
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Cannonpointer » 28 Sep 2023, 11:20 pm » wrote: You can't blame the divorce rate on ***. They don't get married - not even to make babies.  Image
Ever since THE DAWN OF MAN the first humans [Homo Sapiens Africanus] survival  strategy has  been QUANTITY OVER QUALITY..... :) 
Juzz poop dem babies out every 9 mumphs 'n let nature take it's course 'nsheet.
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Neo » 28 Sep 2023, 9:13 pm » wrote: People change. People make choices. Mental illness occurs. Happily divorced after my autistic step daughter got molested at the boys and girls club. Gave her support and counseling and loads of attention. A few months later she was molested by another student in the school bathroom. Same modus operandi. Cornered and the perpetrator ate her out. We got her more counciling and attention. A few months later she accused her gay uncle of the same. Not sure how good autistic ****** tastes but I was having trouble believing her on this occasion. Told the wife to get her serious help or I would not be alone with her. She moved out because I doubted the veracity of her daughters claims. We divorced a short time later. Ex step daughter was molested another three times in the intervening years. I know I dodged a bullet.
That's why the nature of my post was a question rather than simply preaching to people why they should never get divorced.  Sounds like in your case the primary factor was a step-daughter who was mentally ill.  Your wife chose her daughter over you, but a daughter she had with someone else. That's really a shame. Mental illness, and "autism", whatever that means today.  You've got to wonder if your X has any regrets over that, or if she ever came to doubt her daughter's claims?
 
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Cannonpointer » 28 Sep 2023, 11:16 pm » wrote: Mine ran off with a ***.

My own damned fault for marrying a ***.
If that's true, then this one was easily explained and understandable
 
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Skans » 29 Sep 2023, 7:30 am » wrote: If that's true, then this one was easily explained and understandable
Neither sentence was true, but I am advised on good authority to never let the truth get in the way of a punchline.
When you complain, ur friends roll their eyes and ur enemies rejoice

"Because I SAY I am" is a todler's tantrum, not "science"

You cannot betray me - only yourself, to me.

Who cuts off your dick is not a friend

An opinion you won't defend is not your own

Humanity's Law of the Jungle: Survival NOT of the fittest, but of the tribe

When peeing in the pool, stand on the edge

If gender is not sex, why should a gender claim change what sex you shower with?
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PhiloBeddo » 28 Sep 2023, 7:30 pm » wrote: I think the people who stay together is as much about respect as love. My wife and I agree that we are not husband and wife as much as just family at this point. You cannot divorce family.
Honestly, I'm not sure I understand this. Having a hard time wrapping my mind around it.
 
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Cannonpointer » 28 Sep 2023, 11:15 pm » wrote: I once hated a bitch so bad that I married her just to divorce her.
LOL!  Same scenario, but I just F-ed her and told her to get out when I was done.
 
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Skans » 28 Sep 2023, 1:45 pm » wrote: I've never understood how a man and women who choose to get married, then years later wind up getting divorced.  If two people date for a year (or more) and then get married, can't y'all figure out that working on making the marriage better is a better thing to do with your life than simply quitting and getting a divorce? 
while marriage is a commitment, people are too apt to throw in the towel at the first sign of trouble...life throws a lot of **** at you and you get through it...been married 44 yrs, and like my brother says, "including 5 good ones"... :lol:  
 
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sootedupCyndi » 28 Sep 2023, 2:32 pm » wrote: maybe they pick the wrong one- i never did. 32 years ....... i think both women and the men- are looking for greener pastures? life is NOT like that... it isn' that easy or simple. I never married- but 32 years was a good run.!best
 
best way to want a divorce is to go to a marriage concealer. it will tell you to go home and fill out everything you dislike about your partner.  after making out the form. show it to your partner. you now have an open marriage, until the divorce is final.  
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Vegas » 28 Sep 2023, 1:53 pm » wrote: Well...sometimes women fall short of their duties. They stop cleaning and cooking, giving blowjobs, etc...And we can't bitch slap them anymore. So, it's pointless to go on.

Come on Vegas...tell us what you really think.    :rofl:  
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roadkill » 01 Oct 2023, 8:54 am » wrote: Come on Vegas...tell us what you really think.    Image
I never knew a man that wanted ME to cook. :lol:  all a woman has to do is screw up a few good steaks.. problem solved.
 
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sootedupCyndi » 01 Oct 2023, 9:56 am » wrote: I never knew a man that wanted ME to cook. Image  all a woman has to do is screw up a few good steaks.. problem solved.

Yer a genius.     :rofl:  
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sootedupCyndi » 01 Oct 2023, 9:56 am » wrote: I never knew a man that wanted ME to cook. Image  all a woman has to do is screw up a few good steaks.. problem solved.
No man needs a woman to cook.  What we need is for her to clean up after we're done cooking! :die:  
 
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Skans » 01 Oct 2023, 10:40 am » wrote: No man needs a woman to cook.  What we need is for her to clean up after we're done cooking! Image
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Skans » 01 Oct 2023, 10:40 am » wrote: No man needs a woman to cook.  What we need is for her to clean up after we're done cooking! Image
I've noticed as men get older- especially when they retire. They take over the cooking. 
Another thing they tend to do- is take over the grocery shopping.  :lol:  They'll go in 5 grocery stores to score what they want- to save a quarter.
I've always chalked it up- to modern day Hunting.
come on? who here does the grocery shopping? LOL
 
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sootedupCyndi » 01 Oct 2023, 11:08 am » wrote: I've noticed as men get older- especially when they retire. They take over the cooking. 
Another thing they tend to do- is take over the grocery shopping.  Image  They'll go in 5 grocery stores to score what they want- to save a quarter.
I've always chalked it up- to modern day Hunting.
come on? who here does the grocery shopping? LOL
always have done the shopping 

don’t do much cooking 

I do make a mean tenderloin sandwich 

I use the smoker , but that’s about it

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Mrkelly » 01 Oct 2023, 11:32 am » wrote: always have done the shopping 

don’t do much cooking 

I do make a mean tenderloin sandwich 

I use the smoker , but that’s about it

it’s just grilling for lazy people with time on their hands  Image
you do? Does your wife give you a list? LOL
 
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