Maybe I can help.
If you think men can get pregnant, you're a Democrat.
If you support Palestinian Hamas and think the only democracy in the Middle East is evil, you're a Democrat.
If you believe government is the answer to any problem, you're a Democrat.
If you think there is no border crisis, you're a Democrat.
If you think men should be allowed to compete in women's sports, you're a Democrat.
If you can watch The View without vomiting, you're a Democrat.
Hope this helps your confused state of mind.