Oh, I could not agree more - just as a family that lets grandpa live in on the ground floor when he gets to old to walk up the flight of stairs to his bedroom is actually DIS-respecting and DIS-honoring the man. Believe me - I GET it. They should respect grandpa's equality, and make him crawl up and down those stairs. Completely different. What the family is doing is voluntary. Using the force of the government to demand special accomodations from another persondoes not make one equal.