You sound like the person who says that a woman deserved to be raped because of the way she was dressed.
I have not been a willing and eager participant, and in case you haven't noticed I ignore him most of the time, and don't give him a serious answer the rest of the time.
This is what it many times looked like in one of my threads over at DotOrg.
Does that look like normal behavior to you?
If he is going to continue to follow me around like a demented circus freak, then I reserve the right to ridicule him.
If you think that makes me a 'willing and eager participant' you're as crazy as he is.
Put Clem on ignore here and this is what it looks like: