Voluntaryism doesn't require the force of law via the government.I don't think a micro-penis qualifies under the ADA. At least I haven't been able to get my employer to cover one. But my stuttering does. Somebody's smoking a feel-good, politically correct crack pipe. I stutter. I deal with it.I think you are quite wrong, here. When a family decides that grandpa gets special consideration due to advanced age, there could be one refusenik - someone like you - who wants to let grandpa die taking the stairs. But he's over-ruled, and the family majority view holds. The decision has the force of law in that household, notwithstanding that for some members of the household it is not strictly "voluntary," as they disagree. They can live with it, or leave. The majority has spoken (or the autocrat, depending on the family).The same is true here. It IS voluntary. And you have the right to be pissy about it, as one who doesn't WANT to volunteer, but has been over-ruled.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNAQ8LLptUo%5B/media%5D